…a few days make. On Tuesday, October 6, I made a choice. I asked for help. Now, it seems, I must go to court. To pay for that request.
Husband emails alot. ALOT. I get flustered. Forget to lock safe. Disaster averted. Job saved. Ask for help. From husband’s boss and my direct supervisor to get email at work stopped.
Husband goes balistic. How the hell does one spell that word? Next day, after several more emails at home, papers served. On me. At work.
A motion. For a restraining order. Against me. The application uses my words. Against me. Like they were his words. Unreal.
Threatening text message. Cell phone cut off. Communication cut off. Verbal abuse in written form. No money for attorney. Qualify for free one probably. Sad. Overwhelmed. Disbelieving.
…sigh…
Posted by Charlotte on October 22, 2009 at 7:43 am
Hi there;
You dont know me but I came across your blog through another blog I read often.
I too have left my second marriage and was served with papers, receivd emails – blah blah, blah….
I get it – totally…..
I left my second husband December 2007, and we are still going through court proceedings – I want to tell you it gets easier and as time moves on, all will heal….
Time does heal, but the process always gets worse before it gets better…..
I wish you strength and support…..
Sincerely;
Charlotte
Posted by camo on October 22, 2009 at 12:43 pm
Charlotte: Thank you so much for your comment. I can’t tell you how encouraging it is to know I’m not alone. If you feel like talking, I’m here. Take care.
Posted by Charlotte on October 23, 2009 at 9:10 am
Thank-you!
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I will keep checking your blog as I have now added you on my list…I, myself dont have a blog, I used to be on Facebook, but even that posed as a threat with my Ex….any picture of me without him looking as though I was actually enjoying myself was ‘amunition’…
I know, doesnt make sense, but one day soon when I’m not at work (lol) I will fill you in…
YOU ARE NOT ALONE….dont forget that….
Chin up, smile and enjoy your weekend
C.